Have you ever wondered why you keep manifesting the same mistakes in relationships and in business? It seems that we all have parts of our lives that we are successful in and then other parts of our lives/business we just can’t seem to make it work. Sometimes a problem is like a shadow that follows you and then it becomes you. And let me tell you doesn’t have to be like that. We all have a choice.
There was a reason that you kept manifesting the same problems into your life that carry over to your business too, and it all comes down to a simple thing called focus.
All you have to do was to change the way you responded to the world around you. A few simple beliefs that you hold, that keep giving you the same results. It is the difference between and happy life and unhappy life is just a bit of a tweak, that you could do each day that would make the difference that will make the difference.
All you need to do to change the way you are experiencing life is to change the way you responded to the world around you. Sounds easy but it takes practice and repetition and more repetition make any change become permanent. Practice make perfect.
What if it was just a few simple beliefs that you hold, that keeps giving you them same results, what if the difference between and happy life and unhappy life was just a bit of a tweak that you could do each day that would make the difference that will make the difference?
Your focus determines what results you produce. If you’re not getting the results then clearly something needs to change. That thing is your mind.
When you shift you mind and language toward what you want, the way you experience life changes too. Our of life the things we choose to focus on produce results, where you like it or not.
Then there is the other influence that is simply beliefs, the beliefs we hold influence our entire life and how we operate within it. What we believe is what we can achieve and that all it to do was to change the way you responded to the world around you. was just a few simple beliefs that you hold, that keeps giving you them same results, what if the difference between and happy life and unhappy life was just a bit of a tweak that you could do each day that would make the difference that will make the difference?
There maybe a few simple beliefs that you hold, that keep producing the same results. What if the difference between and happy life and unhappy was just remembering what it was like when you were really really happy. Can you remember a time in the past that you were really happy? can you remember that specific time? Good!
When you think about what behaviours we have taken on that are learned behaviours we can notice how it effects our life and those around us. just imagine if we just needed to tweak our behaviours and get completely different results. Just a bit of a tweak that we can do each day that would make the difference that will make the difference?
They simple things are often the hardest to shift and the small things are often the thing that will make a difference.
Complaining gets you nowhere. Talking out loud and thinking about something is one on the rules of activating your future. With that knowledge, you now know that complaining about the problem to friends and family over and over again; this is one of the main reasons why we attract problems repetitively.
We humans like to talk. Talking about ourselves is our favourite subject. You will discover through observation of self and others that we tend to tell the same story again and again.
This observation is little snippets of valuable information to understanding what issues might be keeping you “a slave to the past”. You might complain about a back problem, headache your job or someone or something that makes us unhappy. So listen to that repetitive talk and those little gems of in site. That is where you start.
This complaining is a behaviour that gets a reaction and that is why some people do it, simply to get a reaction, and that is the only way they know how to communicate. That’s unfortunate, because is a learned behaviour. Complaining becomes a habit, one that after a while and can become unconsciously addictive.
This behaviour generates a lot of extra magnetism for those who are on the same negative vibration of thought and creates and propagates more of these negative circumstances. [Law of Attraction 101.]
By observing our behaviours we can recognise how we are creating our life, so shift your focus toward what you want.
The good news is that it is just as easy to create a new way of doing things once we are aware of it now.
We see our faults in others first, so when this happens, observe your behaviour of complaining about the thing you are complaining about and understand you are most likely doing it yourself by complaining about it (perception is projection). Because what we see outside of us we project out onto the world around us, just like a movie projector.
Can you imagine this?
Think about life like you are in the director’s chair and your life is the result of how you instruct the actors around you consciously and unconsciously, and the result of how good you are at being the director is the result of how your movie shows up.
So when you hear yourself complaining about something or someone, notice how you can change it to a positive, by not complaining but finding a solution or projecting your focus on what you want to experience instead.
With a bit of practice, it is easy to limit the negative talk and eventually with practice you will naturally only recognise a positive focus and outcome.
Quit the worry. While most people in society believe that worry is critical for our survival, nothing could be further from the truth.
When we worry about our problems, we generate more momentum for them, and we find ourselves further and further away from the solution and away from what it is we truly need.
Although we tend to understand about negative thoughts and thinking cause problems, changing our thoughts is still often easier said than done.
Our thoughts process at a very fast pace and come without much effort so “mind control” can be tricky, if we don’t give ourselves boundaries. Lead your thoughts into the direction of what you want. Forget about what you don’t want.
It is important to be kind to yourself not to bash yourself over the head about every little thing. Be mindful to monitor your internal dialogue, the self-talk. The trick is to observe not judge yourself and others. So next time you find your mind running off on a tangent quiet the mind come back to a mantra you create for yourself.
- Fear Based Vibration
Our actions have the ability to affect out vibration and our beliefs. Our thought and words that become our beliefs they are a vibration that we unconsciously send out to the world around us.
It’s the basic law of physics that everything is energy and has a vibration. And our actions are a reflection of our beliefs. We see it in our every day with fear based news, media and pictures “if you don’t do this…this might happen”.
The way you combat this is to practice smiling when you feel down. Remember a time when you were happy, and you will find a smile creep up on your face. The simple action of smiling works because our moods and actions work together in tandem.
Altering our mood will change our behaviour. By changing our behaviours regarding a problem will also change our mood which in turn changes the vibration you are sending out to the world, just like an unseen radio signal.
Every time you choose a higher vibrational thought and action you reduce negative attraction. So congratulate yourself on your achievements and give yourself permission to smile and have fun.
Make it your mission to put a smile on the faces of the people around you with positive reinforcement. And of course patients for self and others.
How to Stay Focused Daily
A “daily focus” is always a great way to train the and mind your mind.
What is a daily focus?
A #DailyFocus is for you to set an intention for the day to come back to and to focus on so that every day you a mindful about one thing all day. This practice helps you when things don’t go to plan; you can come back to your positive intention.
How you create your very own #DailyFocus is simple. Just find a word that reminds you to come back to focus on that one thing. E.g Breathe.
You can see a #DailyFocus online if you forget to create your own. Join our online community that has a #DailyFocus each day available for you.
Put it all together, look at the time when you are focused on what you want